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If you're told everything is your fault and you need to change, you are wrong etc does that mean it is? 

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  • everything is your fault and you need to change

    Iain's reply is excellent - but if I was in a certain mood I would say the same thing back to this person [this is called 'mirroring'] and see how they like being on the receiving end of such negativity. Nothing is ever completely one person's fault [unless one of them is a psychopath] but this 'blaming' is scapegoating and happens a lot in stressful environments such as, work, love relationships, bad neighbourhoods. So, my succinct answer to your question is, no.

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  • everything is your fault and you need to change

    Iain's reply is excellent - but if I was in a certain mood I would say the same thing back to this person [this is called 'mirroring'] and see how they like being on the receiving end of such negativity. Nothing is ever completely one person's fault [unless one of them is a psychopath] but this 'blaming' is scapegoating and happens a lot in stressful environments such as, work, love relationships, bad neighbourhoods. So, my succinct answer to your question is, no.

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