3 Good Things - Round 4

Since the third thread of gratitudes is redacted, I'll create a new one;

1. Managed to get a Sunday Lunch, at a local Spar, while supplies were available.

2. Got Manure, off my Mechanic, for growing Spuds; at his Stable.

3. Listened to a Podcast Interview of a Man who talked about Sticks used in Ireland; back in the days.

Parents
  • Painted a meadow with poppies. My daughter copied very well, what I painted. Below my picture.

    Took my daughter out to the playground and approached her friend's father successfully to ask his wife's name to find her on WhatsApp and try to arrange so we can meet and our daughters can play together. It's very stressful for me but I had to do it fir my daughter. She is not like me, she deserves normal social life, something that I never had and can't manage till this very day. 

    While my daughter played with her friend I wrote another part of my alien sci-fi story. 

  • I had to do it fir my daughter.

    That's the best gift you can give her. Yellow heart Wish I'd had a mother like you.

Reply Children
  • I noticed quite many parents love/like their kids under the condition- how similar is the child to the parent ("she is like me!") And what impression the child make on others. I was none of this, so I was corrected constantly. I understand,  that my daughter is not my belonging,  not my doll, not a fancy gadget to show off in front of others, but a human being with unique strengths and needs and may choose something absolutely different than me. And I love her unconditionally. And of course make sure, that I meet her needs.