3 Good Things - Round 4

1. I put together a tiny Easter basket with chocolate eggs for my mom - she loved it

2. got a strong early grey tea which I loooove

3. texted a friend who has a toddler and she sent me a picture with her son and a cute ladybug

Nice to hear from you Ma.ra!

hello dear Cinnabar_wing ! I am having difficulties with some issues but I thought a lot about the community here and a help I got from you all! Hope you are all okay! Happy Easter!!!!!

Cinnabar_wing said:

And don't worry, it is not too much.

this means a lot Cinnabar_wing 

I posted about this now - thanks for not kicking me out of the group cause a professional said I aonly have adhd

Cinnabar_wing said:

a mix of conditions can need a mix of solutions

thank you so much Cinnabar_wing I am very afraid of having ADHD, ASD, and chronic pain all at once. I think autism makes me feel scared, like I’m not chatty enough, and I feel ashamed about it all the time and I have headache cause of the sun and the lights.

That is a very difficult and confusing time. Pain is pain, I don't get how some can use it as a label which means they don't have to do anything for you. That is sad. I hope you can find some help with it, though it can be hard to find anywhere.

And what mixed messages you are getting, very confusing! I think sometimes, professionals see what they want to see in the moment of assessment. Really depends on who you get and what questions they ask.

I would probably end up trying to live somewhere in the middle, just doing whatever helps best at the time, using strategies from all worlds and see what works for you. You could make up a guide to you, as I think a mix of conditions can need a mix of solutions, if that helps any? AuDHD sounds to be very complicated from everything I've heard and shows in different ways!

And don't worry, it is not too much.

That is a very difficult and confusing time. Pain is pain, I don't get how some can use it as a label which means they don't have to do anything for you. That is sad. I hope you can find some help with it, though it can be hard to find anywhere.

And what mixed messages you are getting, very confusing! I think sometimes, professionals see what they want to see in the moment of assessment. Really depends on who you get and what questions they ask.

I would probably end up trying to live somewhere in the middle, just doing whatever helps best at the time, using strategies from all worlds and see what works for you. You could make up a guide to you, as I think a mix of conditions can need a mix of solutions, if that helps any? AuDHD sounds to be very complicated from everything I've heard and shows in different ways!

And don't worry, it is not too much.

Cinnabar_wing said:

And don't worry, it is not too much.

this means a lot Cinnabar_wing 

I posted about this now - thanks for not kicking me out of the group cause a professional said I aonly have adhd

Cinnabar_wing said:

a mix of conditions can need a mix of solutions

thank you so much Cinnabar_wing I am very afraid of having ADHD, ASD, and chronic pain all at once. I think autism makes me feel scared, like I’m not chatty enough, and I feel ashamed about it all the time and I have headache cause of the sun and the lights.