Books for those of no fixed religion but want 'life guidance'

I tried and failed to find the thread asking people's favourite philosopher, hence this new post. I'm near the end of my journey [on earth] and seeking decent books on spirituality not allied to a particular faith. I wanted to share books I've found useful for day-to-day living, with all its difficulties and stressors.

I've joined a lot of different 'styles' over the years - Christianity, Quakerism, Vedanta, Black Baptist.. They each have merits, not least social opportunities, inclusion and support. But I lost belief in a God, and sliding toward being humanist and a Stoic. I want to live a moral life but not chained to a formal faith.

For the last 7 years I've followed the books by modern philosopher, Ryan Holiday, who follows Stoicism - The Daily Stoic. I've found daily Journal writing really helpful, particularly when recovering trauma or my tendency to ruminate on past hurts and abuses.

I am also fond of modern philosopher Alain de Botton. The one I'm reading now is, 'Religion for Atheists' - by turn amusing, amazing and thought-provoking. He puts forward an interesting idea that ditching formal religion as a whole is like throwing out the baby with the bathwater; that  precepts of major religions have a lot to teach about how to live. So, why not use these to form a religion for atheists [those who do not formally believe in a God but want 'morals' to live by]. With the loss of church power and nothing to take its place, Botton makes interesting reading.

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  • Thank you for this post Marianne. I am going to enjoy reading the responses. 

    I have only recently detached myself from organized religion.

    I do still like to follow Jesus and his teachings on how to treat others but only because it feels fair and more aligned with my own internal system.

    I'm looking into all sorts of different areas at the moment.

    I do listen to and read about stoicism and I am also drawn to Alain de Botton, they both feel aligned too.

    I have also discovered a book called Braiding sweet Grass.

    It focuses on fostering a deep, reciprocal relationship with the natural world, often described as a "spiritual practice" rather than a specific religion. 

    I am very drawn to indigenous wisdom and philosophy, it just feels right to me.

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  • Thank you for this post Marianne. I am going to enjoy reading the responses. 

    I have only recently detached myself from organized religion.

    I do still like to follow Jesus and his teachings on how to treat others but only because it feels fair and more aligned with my own internal system.

    I'm looking into all sorts of different areas at the moment.

    I do listen to and read about stoicism and I am also drawn to Alain de Botton, they both feel aligned too.

    I have also discovered a book called Braiding sweet Grass.

    It focuses on fostering a deep, reciprocal relationship with the natural world, often described as a "spiritual practice" rather than a specific religion. 

    I am very drawn to indigenous wisdom and philosophy, it just feels right to me.

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