Books for those of no fixed religion but want 'life guidance'

I tried and failed to find the thread asking people's favourite philosopher, hence this new post. I'm near the end of my journey [on earth] and seeking decent books on spirituality not allied to a particular faith. I wanted to share books I've found useful for day-to-day living, with all its difficulties and stressors.

I've joined a lot of different 'styles' over the years - Christianity, Quakerism, Vedanta, Black Baptist.. They each have merits, not least social opportunities, inclusion and support. But I lost belief in a God, and sliding toward being humanist and a Stoic. I want to live a moral life but not chained to a formal faith.

For the last 7 years I've followed the books by modern philosopher, Ryan Holiday, who follows Stoicism - The Daily Stoic. I've found daily Journal writing really helpful, particularly when recovering trauma or my tendency to ruminate on past hurts and abuses.

I am also fond of modern philosopher Alain de Botton. The one I'm reading now is, 'Religion for Atheists' - by turn amusing, amazing and thought-provoking. He puts forward an interesting idea that ditching formal religion as a whole is like throwing out the baby with the bathwater; that  precepts of major religions have a lot to teach about how to live. So, why not use these to form a religion for atheists [those who do not formally believe in a God but want 'morals' to live by]. With the loss of church power and nothing to take its place, Botton makes interesting reading.

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  • I don’t know of any books on spirituality without religion.

    I read a few of Alain de Botton books years ago and liked how he integrated philosophical teaching into modern day life and illustrated the use of philosophical teachings with practical examples.  

    I’m an ex Catholic (I’m biased) and agnostic, and someone who used be involved in Fransiscan spirituality and later Ignatian spirituality.  I’m interested in religion and I’m currently reading The Lost art of Scripture by Karen Armstrong. It is probably not what you are looking for but the author has written many books on different religions and spirituality, drawing on their various teachings. She is a theologian and used to be a Roman Catholic nun and her journey resonate with parts of my own spiritual journey. I don’t know if she is Christian or not now, but I do remember her talking about her difficulties with taking the Bible literally and doesn’t consider it factually true. 

    She has written a number of books which you could check out on Amazon.

    If you are interested in climate change and nature you might like to read a sample of this book  https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/443025/sacred-nature-by-armstrong-karen/9781529114799

    Alain de Botton thinks highly of her. 

    'Karen Armstrong is one of the handful of wise and supremely commentators on religion' Alain de Botton

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karen_Armstrong

    So, why not use these to form a religion for atheists [those who do not formally believe in a God but want 'morals' to live by]

    That is something I would be interested in, although I wouldn’t want to be resistant to good morals just because they come from Hinduism, Christianity etc. At the moment I think of myself as a follower of Jesus as a man rather than as God. He appeals because of his concern for the marginalised and because some of his moral teachings are relevant today. Also, I have known of him all my life, but I am not a Christian. Have you read the writings of Rumi? 

    I tend to bundle together different spiritualities that resonate with me and I practice meditation. 

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  • I don’t know of any books on spirituality without religion.

    I read a few of Alain de Botton books years ago and liked how he integrated philosophical teaching into modern day life and illustrated the use of philosophical teachings with practical examples.  

    I’m an ex Catholic (I’m biased) and agnostic, and someone who used be involved in Fransiscan spirituality and later Ignatian spirituality.  I’m interested in religion and I’m currently reading The Lost art of Scripture by Karen Armstrong. It is probably not what you are looking for but the author has written many books on different religions and spirituality, drawing on their various teachings. She is a theologian and used to be a Roman Catholic nun and her journey resonate with parts of my own spiritual journey. I don’t know if she is Christian or not now, but I do remember her talking about her difficulties with taking the Bible literally and doesn’t consider it factually true. 

    She has written a number of books which you could check out on Amazon.

    If you are interested in climate change and nature you might like to read a sample of this book  https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/443025/sacred-nature-by-armstrong-karen/9781529114799

    Alain de Botton thinks highly of her. 

    'Karen Armstrong is one of the handful of wise and supremely commentators on religion' Alain de Botton

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karen_Armstrong

    So, why not use these to form a religion for atheists [those who do not formally believe in a God but want 'morals' to live by]

    That is something I would be interested in, although I wouldn’t want to be resistant to good morals just because they come from Hinduism, Christianity etc. At the moment I think of myself as a follower of Jesus as a man rather than as God. He appeals because of his concern for the marginalised and because some of his moral teachings are relevant today. Also, I have known of him all my life, but I am not a Christian. Have you read the writings of Rumi? 

    I tend to bundle together different spiritualities that resonate with me and I practice meditation. 

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