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Confusion around sexuality

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I wasn’t sure what thread to put this under as I haven’t used the website on here in a while. I’ve been questioning my sexuality, I’m a  21 year old female and i haven’t dated properly but i find myself drawn to the same sex.

The problem is I can’t tell if I’m attracted to the opposite sex or due to the fact it’s difficult for me to identity what emotions I’m feeling, i just convince myself i am. 

I am not so sure how to approach this issue.

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  • Fundamentally you may have an inkling of which sex you prefer. There have been times when I thought I might have been bisexual, as some of my choices as a teenager were kind of on the feminine side, but I also have quite an overbearing mother, so this might have played a role in that. I would suggest dating in the usual way, or just asking yourself honestly: if no one was influencing you, who would you like to be with? I can go for a while without dating -when I was younger I might have been more concerned about this. At the moment, I prefer to be alone; however, for years I dated and lived with people..

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