Confusion around sexuality

Back in the day, I think the 1970s, there was a practical system for divining sexual orientation. It involved making a note of the gender of people you found sexually attractive, or just attractive, you encountered when in public during daily life. I think it was up to the first 10 people, this, it was claimed, would give you a measure of how sexually attracted you were to each gender, with bisexuals scoring around the middle.

Back in the day, I think the 1970s, there was a practical system for divining sexual orientation. It involved making a note of the gender of people you found sexually attractive, or just attractive, you encountered when in public during daily life. I think it was up to the first 10 people, this, it was claimed, would give you a measure of how sexually attracted you were to each gender, with bisexuals scoring around the middle.

this sounds like quite a useful method.

I must be very boring because I never found anyone particularly sexually attractive. My parents were ill-suited and always arguing or 'silent'. I never learned to 'relate.' Perhaps knowing the 'signals' is part gene-inherited, part learned and part instinctive. 

pietro_21 said:

At the moment, I prefer to be alone; however, for years I dated and lived with people.

That sounds like me! I was married, twice, in the conventional sense, but never happy - both very coercive men. Perhaps 'mono sexual' should be recognised as an official sexuality. I've been criticised for 'being unnatural' or 'cold' when I still have 'heart' and physical feelings as strong as anyone else. I've lived a full life despite living alone for 40 years.

i class myself as genderfluid but i find myself sexually attracted to men more it makes me happy and thats the main thing