When do you say enough is enough!

My son has just been diagnosed with ASD and already has ADHD. What we as a family are struggling with is when he is being 'naughty' and when it is not necessarily under his control.

When do you get to the point when you say enough is enough? He has just got back from his Dad's and said my Dad says I don;t have ADHD and I don't need my mediaction. I just don't know how I'm supposed to compete against someone who is always telling hom different.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Hi, I'm really sorry to hear about your problems. Do you have your family or good friends that you can go to and talk to about this?

    I think Crystal12 is right in suggesting professional advice. Allowing your DS to get into that state begins to sounds like neglect or abuse to me. Social services may be able to help you get things sorted out?

    Can I suggest that you make a call sooner rather than later for your sake as well as DS. It may be that your ex needs help too. It sounds like he's in a bad place too.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Hi, I'm really sorry to hear about your problems. Do you have your family or good friends that you can go to and talk to about this?

    I think Crystal12 is right in suggesting professional advice. Allowing your DS to get into that state begins to sounds like neglect or abuse to me. Social services may be able to help you get things sorted out?

    Can I suggest that you make a call sooner rather than later for your sake as well as DS. It may be that your ex needs help too. It sounds like he's in a bad place too.

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