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My nightmare

Robert124

My nightmare is that I will die alone and unnoticed.  I will  only be a skeleton when the bailiffs break down the door to evict me for non payment of rent on my flat.

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  • in reply to Robert124

    I completely get why that would make you feel depressed, it makes me very sad too.

    I think more and more people are turning to chatgpt for help.

    We still need human connection though.

    To feel that isolated is a dangerous place to be in.

    We are all connected to each other. 

    Keep reaching out on here.

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  • in reply to Stuart333

    Yeah 

    100% or nothing.

    Sounds familiar 

  • in reply to Lonehare12

    This is one on the autistic problems. Black and white thinking and perfectionism makes it hard to start if you can't see exactly how things will end, so you get depressed. It is how I think, but unforeseen things happen as you go along and things change, so you just have to do things. The problem of course is not overdoing it, I am either 100% or nothing.

  • in reply to Stuart333

    Small steps are needed definitely, it does help with making things seem achievable.

  • in reply to Lonehare12

    If you ask chatGPT what the biggest use case is, it's people talking to it.

    It can simulate emotions, much like I think emotions, but it doesn't feel them. You still need to talk to real people, although it is becoming harder. 

    Most people would rather talk to their phone than to the person in front of them.

    Social spaces are diminishing, trust is decreasing, work places emptying (some days I'm in a 2000sq ft office on my own), pubs getting quieter or closing, people have less to say.

    My neighbour died 20 months ago and the police came and broke down his door. He died suddenly, but he was erratic and wasn't always there, so it took a few days to be noticed.

    I try not to think about it as it doesn't go anywhere good.

    Male the most of each day and don't wish your life away.

    If there is something you want to do, go do it, or at least start down the path. Many small steps will get you a long way.