Humour and Interpretation

I am aware that communication issues tend to be a common problem for autists. Having been a member of this online community since 2022, I have witnessed plenty of misunderstandings and spats.

Earlier, I read a post on the forums that had caused me some amusement. My interpretation was that it wasn't intended to be a serious post. I felt compelled to respond, but part-way through typing my response, I started to have doubts.

Whilst typing my response, I realised that in addition to the post being in the Health & Wellbeing section, the member had used several tags that suggested their post was actually intended to be taken seriously.

I was faced with the dilemma of whether to post my response, or to completely abort. I chose to continue, but now I'm thinking that maybe it would have been better to abort.

For me, I consider humour and laughter to be essential to health and wellbeing. However, I'm also aware that there's a time and a place.

I'm curious to know if other members have found themselves in similar situations?

On one hand, I feel like this is the one place where I should be able to ditch the mask and be myself. On the other hand, I'm well aware of the need to be careful, as the last thing I want is to say something in jest that causes offence and/or distress to another member.

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  • See my dentist knows that if I asked for the numbing cream and he says no he knows that I can’t tell he’s joking with me because we have that same sense of humour. But if he was like that with other clients they would probably get upset. You have to be so careful these days. Say I’m playing Simpsons hit and run and well let’s just say when I fail a street race, Selma and patty aren’t the most PC of people in today’s standards. Some of us will find them funny but others will probably get offended 

  • See it’s like my parents used to like the tv show Mrs browns boys but I couldn’t see the funny side of it. But I enjoy and find SpongeBob funny and all my dad does is moan about how gory it is. Each to their own I guess 

  • Whatever you do that makes you happy is best to do that. As long as it doesn't infringe on anyone else. Hey I have been there sometimes I tell jokes and people look at me like a dog that just learned a new trick. That's fascinating to me. Wow.