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Feeling a bit disappointed and clueless

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My partner broke up with me; and giving that I am off-work due to social anxiety (I quitted due to that, and am without benefits or any kind) it's struck me quite hard. I'm still waiting my autism test, so that wouldn't help me either (just my psychologist, some tests, and relatives suggest I am.)

She has been obsessed about me, for some reasons that escape my understanding (I think partly because her family does not like me).She has been lying to me quite a few times, and gotten somewhat abusive, but I was too weak to react, and I simply accept it.

Now, I think she still loves me but her obsession with me (or rather, general OCD, but applied to me almost exclusively) has made her operate abruptly, and decided to break up. I didn't push back, because I have been hurt so much lately that I accept it.

Anyways, I would appreciate advice. I am stable mentally, just trembling a bit out of fear. I tried to call "homeless scotland" but I've no money in my phone, so that didn't work.

Sorry if the text is a bit incoherent, it's the best I could do right now.

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  • Sorry to hear all your news at the moment - glad you felt able to share with us those things.

    Worth a try: to get mobile credit if you are homeless in Scotland, try contacting your local council to apply for the Scottish Welfare Fund crisis grant, which may provide small grants for essential items.  Grants and benefits are available to help cover basic needs and can be used to purchase essential items like mobile credit. 

    A couple of other options:

    • Shelter Scotland: Offers advice on homelessness, benefits, and how to make a homeless application. 
    • Simon Community Scotland: Offers services for people experiencing homelessness, including support with digital tools, which can be essential for communication and accessing services. Charities like Simon Community Scotland have programs to provide smartphones and digital support, improving access to online services and connections.
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  • Sorry to hear all your news at the moment - glad you felt able to share with us those things.

    Worth a try: to get mobile credit if you are homeless in Scotland, try contacting your local council to apply for the Scottish Welfare Fund crisis grant, which may provide small grants for essential items.  Grants and benefits are available to help cover basic needs and can be used to purchase essential items like mobile credit. 

    A couple of other options:

    • Shelter Scotland: Offers advice on homelessness, benefits, and how to make a homeless application. 
    • Simon Community Scotland: Offers services for people experiencing homelessness, including support with digital tools, which can be essential for communication and accessing services. Charities like Simon Community Scotland have programs to provide smartphones and digital support, improving access to online services and connections.
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