Lost the will to carry on

On New Year's Eve 2024, I vowed I would never say "next year has gotta be better. The only way is up!" It's the sort of thing people tend to say to get with the optimistic spirit of the new year.

So, I didn't say it, because it rarely is. I thought it would be good karma not to say it this time around.

2025 has, so far, been the worst f***ing year of my entire life! I have finally lost the will to carry on. I have precious few people I can confide in. I feel cut off from family. I am going through a divorce that involves my adult step-kids (who I git along wonderfully with before) turning their backs on me. I am still having to live with an estranged wife who hates my guts. I can feel my health rapidly deteriorating. I'm losing weight, smoking more and have dreadful headaches and a general woozy feeling.

I'm even wishing a heart attack or stroke upon myself, just so that people notice the sheer stress and emotional pain I'm under. It's hard to face another day because I know it's more of the same, only with less willpower and strength than the day before.

I long to go to sleep and hope I don't wake up.

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  • Hello, Gordon-not-Ramsay!

    This is an old thread, but just here to check in and see if you're doing okay. I drank a coffee in your honor a week ago, and promptly spat it out (apologies—I tried, but coffee and I are just not pals).

    love,

    Max

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    Yes, I am in a better mind state, but it's taking a bit of time. I'm sure it will. I had an idea to apply for a job on the council. Especially,  If I can work in the park. My happy place. So, fingers crossed on that. Earning money and loving the work (although I'd expect to be busy enough) would be a positivity boost.

    Thanks for asking. I appreciate it deeply WinkThumbsupHeart

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  • RoflThumbsup

    Yes, I am in a better mind state, but it's taking a bit of time. I'm sure it will. I had an idea to apply for a job on the council. Especially,  If I can work in the park. My happy place. So, fingers crossed on that. Earning money and loving the work (although I'd expect to be busy enough) would be a positivity boost.

    Thanks for asking. I appreciate it deeply WinkThumbsupHeart

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