Double standard in “look at others”

Recently I got a question why I work in a warehouse, when I have such good skills- 3 foreign languages at high levels, photoshop, AutoCAD, ms office, good education etc. then I heard good advice about how I should manage my career and I was told look at this person, look at that person, how they manage it, how they run their own business. “Do something about yourself!” Yeah, I love it. 
But when I answer that not everyone with good language skills or high creativity is doing a good career, there are many people who have unique or special skills but do basic jobs, I was told “don’t look at others”. So how is it… look at others or not? In my case I just chose this job because it does not damage me mentally. It’s often I could say therapeutic for me. I just do my job, I habe a good attention to detail, good memory etc. and I’m hard working and honest person. It’s being valued. But I guess many people just can’t get it. Anyway this kind of double standard really irritates me. Does anyone have similar experience?

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  • I entirely agree about double standards and people not understanding. 

    There was a vacancy for a promotion at work. Half my colleagues told me so-and-so had got promotion last year and he wasn't as good as me so I should go for it. The other half told me I was better not to apply because the extra money wasn't worth it and I shouldn't feel I'm in competition with anyone.

    In the end I didn't apply because I just didn't want the job. It sounded boring and would have messed up some of my reasonable adjustments. People are still pushing their own agenda on me and won't accept my rationale for not applying. Rolling eyes

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  • I entirely agree about double standards and people not understanding. 

    There was a vacancy for a promotion at work. Half my colleagues told me so-and-so had got promotion last year and he wasn't as good as me so I should go for it. The other half told me I was better not to apply because the extra money wasn't worth it and I shouldn't feel I'm in competition with anyone.

    In the end I didn't apply because I just didn't want the job. It sounded boring and would have messed up some of my reasonable adjustments. People are still pushing their own agenda on me and won't accept my rationale for not applying. Rolling eyes

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