Double standard in “look at others”

Recently I got a question why I work in a warehouse, when I have such good skills- 3 foreign languages at high levels, photoshop, AutoCAD, ms office, good education etc. then I heard good advice about how I should manage my career and I was told look at this person, look at that person, how they manage it, how they run their own business. “Do something about yourself!” Yeah, I love it. 
But when I answer that not everyone with good language skills or high creativity is doing a good career, there are many people who have unique or special skills but do basic jobs, I was told “don’t look at others”. So how is it… look at others or not? In my case I just chose this job because it does not damage me mentally. It’s often I could say therapeutic for me. I just do my job, I habe a good attention to detail, good memory etc. and I’m hard working and honest person. It’s being valued. But I guess many people just can’t get it. Anyway this kind of double standard really irritates me. Does anyone have similar experience?

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  • I don't understand why some people think they need to tell us what to do. As far as I am concerned it is important to do a job that we can manage and allows us to live a life outside. I left a higher paid job years ago to do something that gave me the ability to have a relaxing life outside of work.

    I remember when I was at school people questioning someone who had very good grades and chose to do a job she wanted to do rather than go to University.

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  • I don't understand why some people think they need to tell us what to do. As far as I am concerned it is important to do a job that we can manage and allows us to live a life outside. I left a higher paid job years ago to do something that gave me the ability to have a relaxing life outside of work.

    I remember when I was at school people questioning someone who had very good grades and chose to do a job she wanted to do rather than go to University.

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