Ever wondered where you fit?

Has anyone felt they have Autism maybe one or two people who know you very well agree with you, yet those who don’t know you so well will refer to you as Neurotypical?  I find this.  I began an assement for Autism at the beginning of the year but have heard nothing more. could they have decided I don’t have Autism.  In some ways I see things the way others do but in other ways I feel like I’m on the outside and very different from other people