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help am i being

dane

i need some guidence or just see what evreyone else thinks i recently got engaged to my girlfriend of 1 year i also have a tattoo with her name on my shoulder  the trouble is  i dont know if i trust her any more  she refuses to tell her mother  we are engeged  as she  says her mum will go up the  wall even though we  are aged 28 me and her 38  she whears her ring  sometimes  other times the thing  that really gets me  is she whears her  ring from  her ex fiancee and refuses to take it off and changes subject if i bring it up  another thing  she does is  when i txt her sometimes she txts back other times she wont bother  i ask her to ring me she wont  when we  go to bed   she will  only let  me do certain things  she tells me she will be intimate with me  then changes her mind the day she comes to see me  i put credit on her phone buy her evreything she wants do evreything for her  she tells me she loves me  as did her best friend confirm  she sid it we both have learning difficulties and me autisim am i being used i cant eat sleep look at my phone 24 n hours day  waiting for her to txt or phone and make excueses for her in my head i need some guidence

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  • i have tried  the letter i have tried not txting  things are getting  so much worse  ive told  her i am deppressed about things to  wich she just rang me  and asked if i ok then continued to talk about herself  and her mates  yesterday we  spent the day in bed but still she would not let me  be  intamate  with her  just touch her  she sid shes ill  she told me to txt her  that night and when  i did she not txt back i  asked her what  happend between her and her ex she  said  how nice he was and how he met her mum and they split up  cos  he worked all day and night  and that dosent work for her i asked her not to  get rid of me to wich she said  i wont and kissed my shoulder i asked her to get rid of her exs ring too wich she said no  she will put it in a box  and not whear it .  i know if  she rid off me i will miss her and have a bad time again  and not be able to atend are group again .  i will never ever get another girlfriend  again ive been used once before  so two broke engagements and  girls name  tatooed on my arm dont look good  at 28  i just want her to be  honest

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  • i have tried  the letter i have tried not txting  things are getting  so much worse  ive told  her i am deppressed about things to  wich she just rang me  and asked if i ok then continued to talk about herself  and her mates  yesterday we  spent the day in bed but still she would not let me  be  intamate  with her  just touch her  she sid shes ill  she told me to txt her  that night and when  i did she not txt back i  asked her what  happend between her and her ex she  said  how nice he was and how he met her mum and they split up  cos  he worked all day and night  and that dosent work for her i asked her not to  get rid of me to wich she said  i wont and kissed my shoulder i asked her to get rid of her exs ring too wich she said no  she will put it in a box  and not whear it .  i know if  she rid off me i will miss her and have a bad time again  and not be able to atend are group again .  i will never ever get another girlfriend  again ive been used once before  so two broke engagements and  girls name  tatooed on my arm dont look good  at 28  i just want her to be  honest

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