Helping a 4 year old socialise?

Hi my 4 year old has just been diagnosed with autism.  I have been advised by his school that he is struggling to socialise with the other children and keeps pushing them away or hugging them roughly to try and engage with them which in turn leads to them pushing him away.  Has anyone experienced this before and how have you overcome this?

I think it may help if I get him used to meeting other children but am reluctant to take him to play centres as the other children and parents dont like it when he does the same thing there.  Can anyone suggest anywhere I could take him to meet other children? or should I just perservere with the play centre type places?

Thank you in Advance.

Rachael

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  • How about taking him to an activity where physical contact is expected maybe junior Marshall arts clu  or some other club does he like dancing or gymnastics where he could take part? 

    My girl got over the huggy phaze with time eventually she got that people didn't want lots of cuddles I just told her that they wanted to play xyz instead fortunately she didn't get upset when they pushed her away.

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  • How about taking him to an activity where physical contact is expected maybe junior Marshall arts clu  or some other club does he like dancing or gymnastics where he could take part? 

    My girl got over the huggy phaze with time eventually she got that people didn't want lots of cuddles I just told her that they wanted to play xyz instead fortunately she didn't get upset when they pushed her away.

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