my relationships start off well and then dwindle out as they or i in some cases get bored and they obviously get tired of hearing the same things over and over...
i repeat myself quite regulary and with an apalling stammer... it can take me 15 mins to say one sentence so i tend to keep quiet and then they say im not interested in what they say or am listening?? sometimes i hate being AS... nobody understands me!! its so awkward and i think im fairly intelligent its just a shame people dont get to see that side of me!!
i keep my distance from most people as i was bullied in my younger years and people used me for what they could get... i know not everyone is like that but i learnt the hard way! maybe i should seek councelling?? maybe get some help??
im extremely shy and very quiet and always have the same expression on my face?? people say i always look "moody" or "sullen" whatever that means...
i dont know what to say to the oppasite sex when it comes to talking to them? i get all flustered,stammer and go red and in most cases will back off....
i too have tried a group situation but couldnt connect with anyone in the room as i am a computer whizz they were all into dr who etc etc i couldnt relate to them... :(
so i went once and never went again.... dr who is not my forte'
well i thank you for your time once again...
i hope i hear from you again soon as i appreciate another aspect of aspergers rather than just mine!!
the world is such a hard place to try to understand!! :(
my relationships start off well and then dwindle out as they or i in some cases get bored and they obviously get tired of hearing the same things over and over...
i repeat myself quite regulary and with an apalling stammer... it can take me 15 mins to say one sentence so i tend to keep quiet and then they say im not interested in what they say or am listening?? sometimes i hate being AS... nobody understands me!! its so awkward and i think im fairly intelligent its just a shame people dont get to see that side of me!!
i keep my distance from most people as i was bullied in my younger years and people used me for what they could get... i know not everyone is like that but i learnt the hard way! maybe i should seek councelling?? maybe get some help??
im extremely shy and very quiet and always have the same expression on my face?? people say i always look "moody" or "sullen" whatever that means...
i dont know what to say to the oppasite sex when it comes to talking to them? i get all flustered,stammer and go red and in most cases will back off....
i too have tried a group situation but couldnt connect with anyone in the room as i am a computer whizz they were all into dr who etc etc i couldnt relate to them... :(
so i went once and never went again.... dr who is not my forte'
well i thank you for your time once again...
i hope i hear from you again soon as i appreciate another aspect of aspergers rather than just mine!!
the world is such a hard place to try to understand!! :(
