Got any nightmare flatmate stories? Post them here if you want

I've just got out of a nightmare flatmate scenario and was feeling very depressed about it today. About an hour ago I found the reddit r/badflatmates and it really helped... I'm really not alone in having a string of horrible and even abusive flatmates.

Does anyone have any nightmare flatmate stories? Please post them here if you have them, they honestly make me feel better!

If you're curious, my latest flatmate was OCD about cleaning and not in a good way. She mopped the floor every night at midnight, noisily, and woke me up doing so. I told her to stop several times and she didn't. She complained constantly about that flat missing this and that. She would regularly emotionally unload on me and not respect me when I didn't want her to talk to me and told her to stop. I was getting fed up because it was clear it wasn't all about her "mental health" and more she was using me as an emotional punchbag. I was very pleased when she gave notice in writing - finally, she's gone! Unfortunately she was nothing but trouble in the actual leaving process because she refused to pay rent and threatened to sue me.

Well, I collected evidence and told her any further emails or interaction from her will result in the police being called and off she scarpered.

Fortunately my current flatmate is wonderful, but that's because I already knew her from a family friend. I'm worried about the next time I'll need to find a flatmate on spareroom and the like (this flatmate actually had a clean reference record before me as well....)...

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  • Yes, consistently shocking (and I've moved around 25 times so far). The last 2 1/2 years I've been staying with my mother a few days each week since her husband died. It's the first time I've done that since I left (many miles away) when I was 17 in 1991. It's definitely 'challenging' (e.g. my mother and sister have been estranged for over 20 years now). Hopefully it's helpful in the long run to be doing it and have done it and I look forward to 'moving on'. It's helpful you've mentioned Spareroom, I was unaware of that, thanks Slight smile

  • The simple solution would be just living by myself, and indeed I did that 3 years ago but cost of living hit and it became necessary to have a flatmate to cover costs...

    Gumtree is also a good place to find people, the best you can do is get references from everyone's last places, meet up with them before showing the flat and fingers crossed they're a decent flatmate... 

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  • The simple solution would be just living by myself, and indeed I did that 3 years ago but cost of living hit and it became necessary to have a flatmate to cover costs...

    Gumtree is also a good place to find people, the best you can do is get references from everyone's last places, meet up with them before showing the flat and fingers crossed they're a decent flatmate... 

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