teenage son is girl crazy

Hello, I'm brand new to this web site forum and am still trying to figure it out.  I am the proud parent of a happy 16 year old teenage boy who is absolutely girl crazy. I have had several incidents where he is bothering girls and despite many conversations he doesn't understand that he needs to back way off. He has driven away girls who were previously his friends because he's asking them all out on dates.  We talk about this on a daily basis.  He is very open and honest.  I just don't know what to do. I don't want him to be ostracized.  Any insight is greatly appreciated.  Wishing happiness and peace to everyone here. Thank you for reading!

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  • yeah thats normal, just normal male hormones. it will drive him fucking crazy and make him super sexual and push him to want to find anyone or anything that itchs that scratch, no matter who or what it is, which is why in prisons even heteros end up doing gay stuff with the others despite not being gay lol

    he will be alone, because women seem to not understand men and are repulsed by any hint that they may have sexual urges or feelings. that repulses women entirely. women want a man who is more like a celibate monk and has no desires or emotions at all.

  • Except that’s not true. I have known some very overtly sexual women over the years. Women who made no secret about having regular casual sex and having a generally high sex drive. And the men they were attracted to were definitely not celibate monk types.

    it’s quite bizarre you could have two men approach the same woman in effectively the same way say the same things and one will be ‘ew you’re a creep’ and the other will be in her bed later that night.

    so my conclusion is that for many women it’s not being approached in a sexual way that  determines whether or not they will reciprocate. Rather they have probably decided maybe even before you open your mouth whether or not they will reciprocate and whether or not they wish to reciprocate is probably a big deciding factor on whether or not they’re okay with being approached in a sexual way. In short as with everything else women expect men to be mind readers. Which sucks if you’re an autistic man who is physically incapable of this.

  • to be fair just getting standard friends is hard enough let alone romantic friends.
    its likely a mix of lack of talking and lack of body language and eye contact. makes us appear we are ignoring everyone and dont want anything to do with anyone.

    i wouldnt even know how to start to even get a romantic partner myself, do you try the impossible friend route first then upgrade it or a more risky vulgar cringe straight in for the kill route? either way i prefer anyone to just come to me instead and do all the work in either friend or relationship case lol 

    to be fair even then i probs ignore some... i was walking back from bargain booze with some beers and i think some woman tried to speak to me from behind, i just ignored her and carried on walking thinking she aint getting any of my beers, they have to last a month! lol 

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  • to be fair just getting standard friends is hard enough let alone romantic friends.
    its likely a mix of lack of talking and lack of body language and eye contact. makes us appear we are ignoring everyone and dont want anything to do with anyone.

    i wouldnt even know how to start to even get a romantic partner myself, do you try the impossible friend route first then upgrade it or a more risky vulgar cringe straight in for the kill route? either way i prefer anyone to just come to me instead and do all the work in either friend or relationship case lol 

    to be fair even then i probs ignore some... i was walking back from bargain booze with some beers and i think some woman tried to speak to me from behind, i just ignored her and carried on walking thinking she aint getting any of my beers, they have to last a month! lol 

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