Sooo.....

On Monday, I plucked up the courage to ask my girlfriend (transgender man-to-woman) if she would marry me.

She's just come out as female, so is learning things like make-up, dresses etc. and asked me if I would give her a make-over so she'd know what she likes for herself. I had just finished and she loved what I had done - just simple and subtle (like how I do mine as and when I can be bothered to wear it lol) - and as we were about to watch 'Air Crash Investigation', I knelt down and the conversation went like this:

Me - I know we broke up before and that was on my part and I hadn't realised just how much you love me. I want to just say that you are the best person in my life and you have really opened my eyes as to how you now want to be. Will you marry me?

Her - (after looking completely shocked for a few seconds) Are you serious?

Me - I wouldn't be kneeling down on a) my bad knee and b) during a pain attack if I wasn't serious.

Her - OMG - Yes! Yes! Yes!

She then pulled me up and hugged me so hard that my ribs still hurt on Tuesday morning lol.

I am really glad that I proposed to her as she means so, so, so much to me and she knows me more than I probably know myself. 

All of my friends and family are really happy for us - especially as I spoke about her transitioning on my FB page - the amount of people who congratulated us was amazing, plus a couple of my work friends actually sent me cards (one being personalised to the both of us).

I just wanted to add this on here as well as I love this forum and thought people could enjoy our special moment as well.

Mweekie xx

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  • Thanks I Sperg - she had asked me out before (as male), but it was kind of not working, but then when she started properly opening up to me, I fell in love with her for this very reason - I'm Bi myself, but she is definitely my soul mate and both of us know each other like the backs of our hands, but this time I felt as I broke us up (hadn't realised how much she loved me), it was down to me to get us back on track again.

    It's strange as I've never asked anyone out before and it's the first time I have ever had the courage to actually propose to anyone.

    We are very happy though and it's definitely been a little shining light for my fiancée as for the past few months, a lot of her friends dropped her when she started coming out - however, all my friend and family are perfectly fine with her coming out - so it now definitely feels like we are on the right track now Slight smile xx