Sooo.....

Oooh are you both gonna have dresses then? Or do you relish the idea of a suit for yourself? I dunno why I forgot to ask, but now my imagination is lit up also thinking of all the cool combos you could have too if you wanted.

It's a mine field tbh. If you go for matching dresses then there will be endless arguments over which style which bride prefers. Non matching dresses and it might become a competition to see which bride can outdo the other. They could agree to each pick each others dress ... then it depends very much on the temperament of both parties ... if one is sufficiently saucy and mischievous enough the other might end up wearing a dress with about the same coverage as dental floss ... although that could make for an entertaining wedding.

Then there are bridesmaids / groomsmen. Will the bridesmaids all wear the same style? Two styles for the 2 brides? Will they both walk down the aisle and both have a set of bridesmaids? Will the groomsmen walk with the bridesmaids? Or will they just make their male friends wear dresses as bridesmaids if they want to be part of it all? So many choices you normally wouldn't worry about.

It's a mine field tbh. If you go for matching dresses then there will be endless arguments over which style which bride prefers. Non matching dresses and it might become a competition to see which bride can outdo the other. They could agree to each pick each others dress ... then it depends very much on the temperament of both parties ... if one is sufficiently saucy and mischievous enough the other might end up wearing a dress with about the same coverage as dental floss ... although that could make for an entertaining wedding.

Then there are bridesmaids / groomsmen. Will the bridesmaids all wear the same style? Two styles for the 2 brides? Will they both walk down the aisle and both have a set of bridesmaids? Will the groomsmen walk with the bridesmaids? Or will they just make their male friends wear dresses as bridesmaids if they want to be part of it all? So many choices you normally wouldn't worry about.

I've already planned mine - bath, hot chocolate, good film and bed lol. My fiancée can do what she wants to do, but as long as she is waiting for me in the registry office/or hotel (not church as neither of us are christian/catholic) I don't mind what she wants to do xx

True, it depends very much on the temperament of the bride. I mean the entire thing is this big show that as much catwalk as anything else. Otherwise you could just all turn up in jeans and t shirts. A lot of brides tend to want things like symmetry which is awkward if only one or two are wearing outfits different than everything else.

Lol I guess the real hot potato is joint or separate hen nights? If your friends are going to drag you to a strip club / chipendales do you really want your other half there lol.

I dunno sounds like a lot of fun if you ask me, as for brides people (two brides so... nomenclature check may be required.) It could be as easy as "here's the options, pick whichever you want to wear of this style rage as long as it's in these colours". I mean there's no rules a wedding has to be a certain way. Lots of folks make it their own to whatever suits them all the time.