How challenging is small talk for you?

I think people might describe me as being well-mannered. Though I try to be, it's not the flattering opinion it might seem but, instead, testament to my restricted behaviour in company - I have to follow conversational conventions, and politeness is such a convention. 

If someone asks "How are you?", then I can answer briefly or (far too) extensively; both might be viewed as autistic habits. None of this means I'm at ease in conversations, as cues and subtleties don't always make their presences felt. Most importantly, I have to remind myself to ask "And how are you?" in return; not because I don't care but because *making the conversational transition is a hard, slow process for me and doesn't spring to my mind immediately*. And all the while I'm conscious that mine is a limited life, one which limits fluent and interesting conversation. 

How difficult or easy do you find small talk and general conversation?

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  • hard, conversations die with me or never start, any attempt like that how are you just gets a basic response of fine or normal and thats that.

    cant think of anything else to say to people and they probs cant think of anything to say either lol 
    if the other person has things to say i can probably luck out and appear talkative i suppose but it pretty much requires all the work on their end and hoping they can find something i can respond to with more than 1 word.

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  • hard, conversations die with me or never start, any attempt like that how are you just gets a basic response of fine or normal and thats that.

    cant think of anything else to say to people and they probs cant think of anything to say either lol 
    if the other person has things to say i can probably luck out and appear talkative i suppose but it pretty much requires all the work on their end and hoping they can find something i can respond to with more than 1 word.

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