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I Sperg

Every day for about 4 days now, every time I refresh my screen or move about the site, I get reminded that some body hated me so much that they asked for my very existence here to be obliterated.  

*section removed on advice from wise friend*

Everyday for about four days now, I've been made to wonder, do I really "fit in" here?

I wonder if it happened to any of the other "deleted users"?

It's been suggested by one kind member that I am not slated to join that group.

Yet isn't endless fecking rejection, an integral part of the Autism experience?

For me, not knowing why my account was flagged as "Inappropriate" makes the given opportunity to "respond" somewhat 1950's soviet in it's aspect, or maybe vaguely reminds one of the 1960's series "the prisoner". Certainly not useful.

BUT every day now until the 4th apparently, I get to wonder if I should be reaching out to those in my "friends" list who really do seem "friendly" and give them my email address in a P.M...

And if you click on that litlle yellow thing you get:

I've just noticed the tiny word "abuse". At least Ii know what I am being "judged" for now...

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  • i had a few of those and i clicked the thingy to have them review it each time and i think they removed it after i complained each time and told them it isnt very inclusive lol

  • in reply to Caelus

    You like me have a reasonably strong sense of right and wrong and are not afraid to express it.

    You also like me appear to still be learning and adapting to circumstances, (and doing it well, from what I can gather) 

    Not everyone likes that. Some people get really insistent on their point of view being the only one that matters.

    We will pick up the "downvotes" but the way it's being done here does not a learning experience offer!  

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    I Sperg said:
    Some people get really insistent on their point of view being the only one that matters.

    Keep in mind that do due to abusively induced trauma (much like getting punched to the eyes and then the cheeks and eyelids swelling up) the receptive capacities of the body-mind relationship can end up getting obstructed by the protective capacities, and the projective capacities can further corrupt matters with imagined speculations that have little or no actual correlation with events as they actually are ~ but more events that have been repeatedly the case for those having experienced them, which traumatically leads to ‘black and white’ / ‘all or nothing’ conceptualisation ~ where a person or a group of people imagine themselves as being entirely right, whilst another person or group of people is conversely imagined as being entirely wrong.

    Hence people end up in effect as if arguing that a cuboid block only has a square or rectangle shaped side ~ as being it’s entire surface area, rather than as having two square and four rectangle shaped sides as being in unity a single object.

    I Sperg said:
    We will pick up the "downvotes" but the way it's being done here does not a learning experience offer!  

    Perhaps reconsider that experiences of the absolute and the infinite have for their finite embodiments purpose and as such meaning ~ much in character like rough rocks become naturally over the ages smooth pebbles, and through mastery rough diamonds can be much sooner ground and polished to become multifaceted diamonds ~ with multitude reflective surfaces being equally relevant as beautifully unified refractive integrities.

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  • in reply to I Sperg
    I Sperg said:
    Some people get really insistent on their point of view being the only one that matters.

    Keep in mind that do due to abusively induced trauma (much like getting punched to the eyes and then the cheeks and eyelids swelling up) the receptive capacities of the body-mind relationship can end up getting obstructed by the protective capacities, and the projective capacities can further corrupt matters with imagined speculations that have little or no actual correlation with events as they actually are ~ but more events that have been repeatedly the case for those having experienced them, which traumatically leads to ‘black and white’ / ‘all or nothing’ conceptualisation ~ where a person or a group of people imagine themselves as being entirely right, whilst another person or group of people is conversely imagined as being entirely wrong.

    Hence people end up in effect as if arguing that a cuboid block only has a square or rectangle shaped side ~ as being it’s entire surface area, rather than as having two square and four rectangle shaped sides as being in unity a single object.

    I Sperg said:
    We will pick up the "downvotes" but the way it's being done here does not a learning experience offer!  

    Perhaps reconsider that experiences of the absolute and the infinite have for their finite embodiments purpose and as such meaning ~ much in character like rough rocks become naturally over the ages smooth pebbles, and through mastery rough diamonds can be much sooner ground and polished to become multifaceted diamonds ~ with multitude reflective surfaces being equally relevant as beautifully unified refractive integrities.

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