Issues with school

So my daughter is 7 and is awaiting asd and adhd diagnosis and has learning disability, she’s currently in a mainstream school and I’ve recently become aware that her class teacher is shouting at her when she lacks concentration in class. My daughter struggles greatly with emotion regulation and becomes inconsolable if an adult show’s disappointment which the school and class teacher know, now my daughter is refusing to go to school, she cries and screams she doesn’t want to go. I’ve spoken to the teacher and her response was “well I can’t not tell her off “ to which I asked could she try a different method because now my daughter is shutting down at school and home I fear it’s causing more harm than good and the teacher doesn’t seem to give a crap, I feel like the school should be more willing to help or try something different am I asking too much ? I feel they shouldn’t be treating a child with disabilities this way ? Does anybody know if this is right or have any help / advice please I can’t stand to see my daughter so distraught. 

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  • My son is 12 he has ASD and ADHD he refuses to go to school now the school are saying we will soon be getting fines, it's stressing me out 

  • Hi, I am really sorry to hear that and I have been there before (in short we ended up changing school asap). First you need to talk to the director of the school to see whether he/she backs up the teacher or not, and if he is willing to recognize the problem from the school's side and put a solution in place (changing class, adding a person, mentoring the teacher etc..). Some schools are actually bullying parents to get rid of them and to do so they put extra stress on us so that we resign. Keep all communications via emails in case you need proofs.  

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  • Hi, I am really sorry to hear that and I have been there before (in short we ended up changing school asap). First you need to talk to the director of the school to see whether he/she backs up the teacher or not, and if he is willing to recognize the problem from the school's side and put a solution in place (changing class, adding a person, mentoring the teacher etc..). Some schools are actually bullying parents to get rid of them and to do so they put extra stress on us so that we resign. Keep all communications via emails in case you need proofs.  

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