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In limbo between autistic / non autistic

LostGUY

Hi all, new to this forum, I've recently been referred by my GP for an autism assessment. The more I read the more I feel I could be on the spectrum. I'm aware I could be waiting 2 or 3 years for the assessment. In the meantime I feel in limbo. I've never felt like I really fit in, not had friends for a good 25 years plus. I don't know whether I should keep pushing myself to try to overcome my difficulties in the neurotypical world or seek to limit my social interactions. 

Any advice from people who have autism or are waiting for a diagnosis would be welcome. Thanks for reading. 

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  • I sometimes think they tell people it’s 2-3 years wait for an assessment to put people off from trying to get one! Mine has been quicker than that, and I’ve heard many say it’s quicker. They might contact you sooner than you expect. I think most people instinctively realise they are autistic before they attempt to get an assessment. The information is readily available so I suspect for many people it’s as much confirmation of what they already know in many ways. 
    I think the bigger challenge is finding ways to manage the challenges that being autistic presents us with. The label itself doesn’t really help on that score, The diagnosis doesn’t really bring any support when you’re an adult either. 
    The lack of support means we basically have to help ourselves - if we can. 

    This community is great - very friendly and supportive and a great source of non-judgemental advice. You will find a good welcome here.
    You are not alone :)  

  • in reply to Kate Kestrel
    Kate Kestrel said:
    This community is great - very friendly and supportive and a great source of non-judgemental advice. You will find a good welcome here.
    You are not alone :)  

    This is really nice to learn.  I'm very new to talking to people who may listen to me and give fair advice.  Thank you Kate.

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