I have cracked the NT CODE !

In my opinion, the NT code is, they just go along with what everyone else considers normal, and don't question norms. If anyone doesn't fit into the norm or dares to question norms, then they get shunned and called a psycho.

Apex predators - fighting is a risk to survival - so they measure everyone they meet as threat or target - if you are the same, behave the same, look the same, similar values = friend - no need to fight.

Anyone different = target - Attack!

Yeah, from my observations of NTs, they seem to move in groups where predators rule over prey, and the prey just agrees with the predators. 

I have lost so-called "friends" (NT prey) who didn't have anything against me, but distanced themselves from me purely because the whole group collectively shunned me. 

I have a close friend who is an NT, she is not a group animal but very much her own person, which is why we are friends. We were once discussing the difference between NTs and neurotypicals, and she said that she just instinctively knows when to stay out of trouble. She doesn't lie or people-please, but she does distance herself from people/keep her mouth shut if she thinks she'll get into trouble.

I have a close friend who is an NT, she is not a group animal but very much her own person, which is why we are friends. We were once discussing the difference between NTs and neurotypicals, and she said that she just instinctively knows when to stay out of trouble. She doesn't lie or people-please, but she does distance herself from people/keep her mouth shut if she thinks she'll get into trouble.