Work hours too much

My 20 year old son has just been diagnosed autistic.  He started a new job in Sept which was 16 hours which suited him.  he didn't tell them about his diagnosis and wanted to try and "get by".  His hours have now increased to 32 per week and he can't cope.  The problem is he really likes the job and the people but can't bring himself to speak to them and explain.  He would rather leave the job - he really needs to work it's done him the world of good up to now.  Any suggestions how I can get him to speak to his Manager (he won't let me do it!)

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  • Work changes can be difficult for autistic people, and employers may not understand why someone doesn't want more hours, or more workload, or a change in role.  Its best to inform the manager by letter of his autism and difficulties with 32 hours, as limiting his hours would be a reasonable adjustment.  Doesn't mean they will agree to it, they may choose to let him go and find someone that can manage with 32 hours, but its best to try now before he crashes, or they let him go.

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  • Work changes can be difficult for autistic people, and employers may not understand why someone doesn't want more hours, or more workload, or a change in role.  Its best to inform the manager by letter of his autism and difficulties with 32 hours, as limiting his hours would be a reasonable adjustment.  Doesn't mean they will agree to it, they may choose to let him go and find someone that can manage with 32 hours, but its best to try now before he crashes, or they let him go.

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