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I am sick of not understanding what I have done wrong

piggy1401

Hey Everyone,

i feel like i always do the wrong thing and i don't know it's the wrong thing until someone shouts at me, and i have discovered that asking what i have done wrong results in more shouting so i have stopped doing that now. i just wish i knew what i am supposed to do.

not really sure what i want people to say. i just wanted to rant

Alisha xx

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  • Hi Alisha.

    We all need a good rant sometimes (daily!?).

    Asking whats wrong is vital for me... perhaps you need to pick the time & place to do so? If someone is yelling, they are probably not in the best frame of mind for discussion.

    Perhaps wait until you catch them at a calm moment (perhaps with a beer in hand if age appropriate) and ask "about the XYZ incident the other day... how could I have handled it better"?

    Do they know you're autistic?

  • in reply to moon

    i took your advice and asked today when she had calmed down and got a better reaction than usual.

    yes, most people know i am autistic

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