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Noisy neighbour up talking ALL night, keeping me awake.

Hope

My neighbour, the woman upstairs, kept talking to a man (her boyfriend?) all night. I could hear his voice more than hers, and it was loud. They were arguing from 6pm until 5am in the morning. Some of it sounded quite disturbing. I get stressed when I hear arguments because I feel the conflict. I feel angry. She might be nocturnal but I need my sleep, and due to my anxiety, I need it even more. Without sleep, my anxiety goes through the roof. First there were noisy students outside my flat (I live near a Uni), then, after they disappeared at 1am, all I could hear was the arguing. I have heard this man before, and initially thought the noise was coming from outside the flat, right outside my window. But it actually comes from upstairs. I am extra sensitive to background noise when I am trying to sleep (I can't block it out), and I just feel b***** angry and upset.

Parents

  • When I say constant talking through the night, I mean precisely that. And he is still talking now. It has been going on for hours!. It would be alright if the talking were only a couple of hours in the mid-morning or afternoon, but is constant. Just one constant male voice. I can't hear her voice - she is softly spoken. Just hear his voice. And with no sleep, the noise makes me even more stressed. I feel like hitting someone. I hate it. Absolutely hate it. The noise goes right through me. And this is why I sometimes hate people. They spoil my peace and quiet. Surely they know that noise carries?

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  • When I say constant talking through the night, I mean precisely that. And he is still talking now. It has been going on for hours!. It would be alright if the talking were only a couple of hours in the mid-morning or afternoon, but is constant. Just one constant male voice. I can't hear her voice - she is softly spoken. Just hear his voice. And with no sleep, the noise makes me even more stressed. I feel like hitting someone. I hate it. Absolutely hate it. The noise goes right through me. And this is why I sometimes hate people. They spoil my peace and quiet. Surely they know that noise carries?

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  • in reply to Hope

    I’m experiencing the same problems. My neighbours are students or 20+ and they disregard me thumping loudly for them to shut up, and are still talking. Today they started at 2am till 5 am.  I am so angry and hate them that I even started to pray for them to move out  and in the worst instances as of today for them to die. All done in anger though but still. Call me crazy but today I got so mad that I looked up instant death spells for them but couldn’t find any.