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I think I'm unloveable

J

I've been in one relationship that lasted 8 months, during which I didn't know I was autistic

Throughout the whole thing I cared about him but I always just felt awkward, and acted awkward. I never really had anything to say, we kind of just sat in silence most of the time watching tv or a movie. I can't make conversation and that is a huge part of a relationship, talking.

I don't think I'll ever be able to have a proper, successful relationship because I'm too awkward and never have much to say, which probably makes the whole thing weird. I loved being in a relationship and really want intimacy, I just don't think I can keep a bond with someone for long because I ruin it with how weird I am. I think I'll end up lonely forever, which I really don't want.

What can I do to stop ruining all my relationships by being awkward and quiet? I don't want to be alone

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  • in reply to J

    u just to fine a man who has similar interests  or political views so you can talk about thise things OR sometimes oppostes attract each other which has always interested biologists. 

    are you working ? do u like art, music, the color pink ?

    put these details into your bio so more peple here will talk to you. Talking is all about practise and how to play up to egos.

    if u meet a man u like and u cant think of anything to say just keep saying 

    "thats interesting"

    "your great"    " I like u " "your funny"     

    also see if you can find Active Listening tutorials ---- i was trained by a Bot in Active listening !

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