I'm definitely not a hugger, and a lot of my friends know that so don't even go there. One does like to hug, but now I know she will, I'm prepared for it. My boss also is a hugger, but he usually does say "can I have a hug" to give warning. I strangely don't actually mind it from him.
Hugs that take me by surprise are most disconcerting. I never seem to know what ot do with my arms. Or my head. Or any other part of my body come to think of it.
