Autism And Socio/Psychopathy

Greetings, all. I attempt this Thread as new, since there are no other outlets, and it seems pertinent for recently. NOTE: I have done a Thread about Socio/PsychoPathy before (...have fun using "search", anyone...). BUT - I DO suggest that anyone who does not know about it, should spend a good long while in looking up Sociopathy, Psychopathy, and Autism... and then consider all of it VERY carefully... if deciding to vent/be negative at this Thread. This for once, excuse me, also includes You "Moderators"!

I try to say that, because there is as much a Social stereotyping which is totally WRONG, attached to Sociopaths / Psychopaths ... as there is attatched to Autism. Not all Autism causes Clumsy or Genius behaviour, just as not all Socio/PsychoPaths are Stalkers or Killers... just to name four things out of many. Everyone is different.
The thing is... the difference between Autism and Socio/PsychoPathy, is that Autistics deal with social-'faux-pas' with some regret or avoidance... but Socio/PsychoPaths deal with it by ignoring it or with a sort of acceptance.

Autistic Persons have little trouble with stating that they are Autistic, but Socio/PsychoPaths will never admit that they are Socio/PsychoPaths (even after being diagnosed!). This is why I name no names here, but I still like those whom I like, and try to explain, but I must do so in a cryptic/non-direct manner here.
I hope that those concerned read this, and understand - or darn well LOOK IT UP! - and to this day, I really would like to help more, but starting this Thread is about the best I can do. I prefer people to understand what I try to say, and if not, then do not Post or hate in haste. Good Fortune to All... Just do not stretch yourselves more than You can handle across this Forum. Please.

  • You can 'undo' an up or down its simply by clicking the up or down chevron again... 

  • Hey, "Brains"... THANK YOU, You are one of the concerned persons. I have written a lot of replies so far, and so that is all of that. I say to Your Good Self that I mainly Posted this Thread in order to state what I wanted to state 'openly', and to try to say that People need not leave and all of that, or take it as bad as it was taken without knowing this. As I said, I was also confused/scared/etc, but then I identified with it, and it is only as "bad" as Autism is when not understood...

    ...This Thread would be nice if other Persons living with Persons diagnosed with Sociopathy or Psychopathy also posted, though. But as I have done this, I am fine that it can drop away... (until I next have a problem with my own Brother, nothing to do with this Forum...!)     :-/

  • Thank You "Neekby"... I next write a reply to Mr TrainSpotter below, which is true and applicable. I just wanted to offer a good explanation... but the problem is misinterpretation and social stereotypes.

  • ...Thanks Much again. I was, and still am, prone to Upvoting, though. But I am still not good at "chit chat". *sigh*...

    I "like", and like those whom I like. But I cannot stay as long as I like and do not see everything and so "like" it, as much as I did when I first came here. You know, about two Years ago, long long before, when this was all fields... (!)

  • Hi DC

    I like a lot of what you say, and your motives.

    I do not wish to comment at all on the post, but I just wish to say I have added a thread for a 'Modrerator Alert'.  We should be looking for solutions, for this problem, not creating more discontent, although I know that is not your intention.

    I might come back to this thread in a week or so when hopefully things have died down a bit.

    Keep up the good work though DC.  I support your intention and respect your integrity,  and know your post is not made with any other than the best intentions.

  • Don't worry about up & down votes - people make snap decisions that they can't take back.  As long as you are true to yourself, let the cards fall where they will.

  • (This is to the "downvoter". We are/were/are "friends", here. Please consider very deeply what I said in the OP. 

    But, as this is my own Thread, I can go off upon whatever tangents I like (maybe). I have been waiting to post SUPPORT at Your good self, but have not had oppertunity. If Your life is difficult right now, then You are one of those to whom I suggest taking 'Time Off', or starting Your own Thread. As I said in the OP, if I could physically help Your situation then I would... I can only offer Good Fortune to The Real Person with this Account. Do not delete, just see it through, or hang tough. Also, try to record whatever is happening as evidence... but I have said that upon previous Threads before. Even what happens here counts as evidence.)

  • (...But as I write that, there is a downvote. Really? But I shall not change my previous post, there.)

  • Yes - I mean it in a positive way - I just really hope this thread doesn't get subverted by others to force an agenda.

    ...Myself as well. Excuse Me an ebullition: YAY! What I post so far is indeed okay! I am so glad!

    ...*ahem* Finished now. (!) Without this sort of interaction, or just VoteUps, I honestly would not know when I am posting the right things/words. It was great to "chat" with You, Elongation. Thanks.

  • DC I think you're trying to do a good thing here and trying really hard to it in a way that won't blow up (again)...

    But I have to agree with Plastic... it's too soon.

    It seems a shame you can't PM the friend you want to help with this thread (though if it is who I think it is this seems odd as they declared that they were getting abusive PMs... maybe they have changed their settings?)

    "Time heals all wounds"

    Best wishes 

  • Yes - I mean it in a positive way - I just really hope this thread doesn't get subverted by others to force an agenda.

  • Cool.

    (...This is quite irrelevant to this Topic, but... do You really mean that? In a sort of good way? Thank You!! I am SO not good at "chit chat", yet I knew that this was a 'nervous' Thread for Me, but I really mean and stand by what I say. Um, well, if You mean that then... Um... Thanks...)

    Thank You, really.

  • You are correct about all of that - Do not worry, I was honestly only trying to Post an Explanation for what occurred.

    As I try to say... Socio/Psychopathy is as if surrounded with negativity, but I do NOT mean it the negative. Again, as I said in the OP. 

    There are people who were scared/confused/hurt by what occurred, and I am trying to explain what occurred in this Thread. But it is very difficult due to the nature of what I specify.

    I really mean this. If the words Sociopath or Pychopath are taken as an insult, then I can do nothing about that except attempt to post more understanding about it. (I said that the same could be said of Autism.) 

    some will take the opportunity to launch their attack again.

    ...Insofar as "social media"/this Forum being their outlet (for "attack"), then they can now do so Here... or start their own Thread. I hope all that I wrote is understood. Thanks...

  • These things are cyclical on this type of forum - it goes Nuclear every now & then.

    In my opinion, it's best to let it all cool down and settle - so picking at fresh scabs will re-ignite the fire.

    Lots of people are still agitated and upset and some will take the opportunity to launch their attack again.

    I'm surprised that this tone-deaf post was made so soon - a bit too soon - it seems to be trying to be provocative.

    Just my opinion - I may be wrong.

  • after a nice peaceful day you want to stir the trouble.

    ...Glad Tidings, Stretchy and Adaptable.... NO - I am not trying to start "trouble". I was hoping anyone concerned replied at first, if anyone at all. But I clearly state that I am not inviting trouble. I cannot PM and the other Threads are now locked. And now if I posted elsewhere, it would be taken out of context and seen as either hate/ignorance. This Thread is not about that. If anyone wants to Post - again - about this sort of thing without what happened before, then that is invited here.

    I tried to Post about understanding, difficult at times, and sometimes hard to percieve. I mean all that I say, totally, including the unrelated Thread which I began awhile back, little to do with this Thread, but for reasons I state.

    There are people who were scared/confused/hurt by what occurred, and I am trying to explain what occurred in this Thread. But it is very difficult due to the nature of what I specify.

    In a way, no-one is at fault, but I do try to say here that it was taken as if deliberate. I began this Thread because this has happened before, and it might happen again anywhere. ...And the Internet just allows almost everything... out of context.

  • Seriously - after a nice peaceful day you want to stir the trouble. Was this REALLY necessary?

    Head desk.

  • ( To try to begin. I present a scenario, about my using the Internet recently. (To help with clues, I am always "DC".)
    ...Once upon a time (!), DC logged on and found something strange and scary occurring. There were people confused and scared away, and as DC read further, DC was also confused and scared. There were "Friends" of DC, who were arguing and posting strange, uncharacteristic things at each other. One in particular was as if a totally different person, and the others were trying to reason with them. But the First Friend was not listening.

    This first Thread was "locked". Wanting to help DC posted upon a next Thread, links to the first Thread, inviting the Friends to try to reason with each other... but this did not happen. Then comes Nighttime and Sleep. The saying goes that "Things look different in the Morning"... yet DC would not know this since her sleep is so bad she wakes in the Afternoon (!). Yet a new perspective IS gained, and it is because of her bad sleep.

    DC's bad sleep is caused by her so-called "Brother", whom was mentioned upon an unrelated Thread. Still worrying about all of the "Friends", DC looks at this Forum again, to find another Thread "locked". Some Friends act as if on the verge of leaving, and some others are acting hostile, and the first as if nothing happened at all. It was scary and confusing, yet NOW many pieces of confusion fall into place... especially concerning the Main Friend in question...

    Long OPs seem acceptable lately, and so I wrote all of that. Now I shall Name without Naming, for reasons which should next become clear.
    DC - My Main objective is as My UserName says. I try to do my best, and I should say, as always - This is not a hostile Post at anyone! I hate hatred, but it took Me a Night before realising what was really going on!
    MT - But for responses to Yourself, they seemed like "trolling", but I was reading all this and this helped me to conclude what I suspect... which I cannot directly say (!). (I also notice it was aimed at Men but ignored Women.) Do not respond in kind, as the results will be as seen. Please keep Yourself as You are, and if You at least understand this cryptic Thread then it will be worth my writing.
    BUR - I still like You. You are a fantastic person with many unique experiences to share as You like... but Your output then, confused Me... yet now I know why... and also why I cannot directly SAY why. Please do not Post whilst stressed and there is no need to Post so very much... & this is true of all persons.
    Both+AllOtherPeople - I keep saying this -- If in need of a "break" from this Forum, You need not "delete", just leave off for a bit... seriously.

    ...The problem with my life is that hindsight is 20:20, but hindsight is experience which is an extremely valuable thing. Thanks for reading, anyone. (Please consider what I said in the OP, any "haters"..) I post all this to see what anyone makes of it. (* nervously... *)  )