Well I’ve just told my mother in law that I’ve been diagnosed and proceeded to inform her of some my issues of which one is lack of empathy to which she basically replied saying she wished she knew this before I married her daughter, insinuating she would of tried to stop it from happening. She then used the opportunity to attack me with the lack of task I do around the house(I’m currently living with in laws). Even though I’ve told her I struggle with social situations and don’t respond to aggression very well. I’m absolute fuming at this and now really don’t want to live here anymore but feel trapped as I have nowhere to go!
mother in laws are notorious for thinking there darling daughters or sons are too good for their partners the main thing is how does your partner feel does she support you against her mother ? as for tasks it is only fair you do your share
Yea the wife is on my side and regarding chore I work 10-12 hours Monday to fri so I do the dishwasher mostly everyday and sort out the stuff that her mum(who works part time) has left in the sink from her lunch. I know it’s her house and she can do what she wants, but wen she gets home after working 4 hours at 7pm she does *** all. It’s left to father in law the wife and I to do
then it sounds like she's picking at you just for the sake of it i had a similar situation many years ago and just agreed with everything she said and just carried on as before but managed to get my own place asap when you're living in someone elses home it's horrible especially if they're pernifiky like she sounds bide your time and enjoy telling her where to go when you get your own place
yea i need to move out, aparently we’re all sitting down to talk tonight. So looking forward to that, not
just what you need more stress
I know right