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So Nana Died last night...

loulabell

I told Jake and he just screamed "great thats another member of my family whos dead!" His grandad died before he was born. He had his VERY angry face on! Yell

Since then i havent been able to speak to him about it. I am worried hes keeping it bottled up which can never be good :(

He has also said some random silly comments, like "im gonna make a prayer to god and ask him to give everyone eternal youth and give me an ultramatrix so i can get to school quicker." That was once sentance!

Is it okay that he hasnt been sad?

Is it okay that he wont talk about it?

He stated he doesnt want to go to the funeral, that was without me mentioning it!

Will he be okay? I was there when my sister told her kids who are younger than 5 and they cried...they understood it was a sad thing that they would never see thier nana again!

Just thought i would ask...i do worry about him :(

Lou x

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  • So is it best to leave him, not talk about it and let him deal with it in his own time. 

    He did briefly speak to me this morning about it, but it was just to say that i shouldnt go to the funeral because it will upset me and that he wouldnt want me to be sad. 

    I feel he understands what is happening but its all bottled up, and you think this is ok? (i dont mean that in a bad way, its just a question :) ) 

    i just dont know the best way to deal with it, they were very very close, he would tell nana things he wouldnt tell me.

    Thanks again for your reply, its much easier to understand from hearing from someone who thinks possibly like he does. You can read all the information you can get your hand on but it wont help you understand if you see what i mean.

    Take care 

    Lou x

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  • So is it best to leave him, not talk about it and let him deal with it in his own time. 

    He did briefly speak to me this morning about it, but it was just to say that i shouldnt go to the funeral because it will upset me and that he wouldnt want me to be sad. 

    I feel he understands what is happening but its all bottled up, and you think this is ok? (i dont mean that in a bad way, its just a question :) ) 

    i just dont know the best way to deal with it, they were very very close, he would tell nana things he wouldnt tell me.

    Thanks again for your reply, its much easier to understand from hearing from someone who thinks possibly like he does. You can read all the information you can get your hand on but it wont help you understand if you see what i mean.

    Take care 

    Lou x

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