Tricky situation...

Hi. I was wondering if anyone had any experiences with an undiagnosed autistic partner who reacted in an extreme way to the suggestion that neuro-diversity could be the source of relationship problems.

And I do mean extreme. As in life changing extreme.

And by neuro-diversity in this case I mean two quite different iterations of autism itself, rather than ASD-NT. But would be glad to hear anyone's experience.

I'm not officially diagnosed but it has been strongly suggested that I am autistic by a psychiatrist and CPN. I would tend to agree, as it makes sense of my life. In every way.

I'm currently on sick leave and experiencing what I imagine is quite a severe autistic burnout and depression.

So far it's been helpful to read here that other people are experiencing similar difficulties and still have hope for themselves and support from other people.

The local CMHT has been a source of support to me, mainly owing to my having a wonderful CPN. They do exist!

Thanks for reading.