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Anyone feel like a burden sometimes?

pinkchocoholic

I live with my parents and I feel like most of the disagreements they have are because of my needs and likes and dislikes. For example, I don't like most food they do and my Dad is good at buying me something to have that I enjoy and Mum allows it. I feel like I am causing them a lot more disagreements and distress than I would if I were normal.

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  • I often feel like a burden and feel guilty for that. I'm too absent, but trying to be present around those, who need me is not working. I often feel a need to apologise for being myself or need to ask if I disturb others, if others hate me etc. I stop myself from asking such questions at work. I know logically,  that it would be seen as annoying. I wondered many times, who I would be if I was like others. 

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  • I often feel like a burden and feel guilty for that. I'm too absent, but trying to be present around those, who need me is not working. I often feel a need to apologise for being myself or need to ask if I disturb others, if others hate me etc. I stop myself from asking such questions at work. I know logically,  that it would be seen as annoying. I wondered many times, who I would be if I was like others. 

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