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Hergé

Well my life is about to take a massive left turn.

My wife was diagnosed with breast cancer a month ago. So currently the plan is six months of chemo and then surgery. I'm trying very hard not to go down a very dark rabbit hole but it's incredible difficult.

 Also have ADHD and getting my brain just to quiet down a bit so I can calmly process the vast amount of information that's currently buzzing about.

My mood hasn't been great for years and trying to get the NHS to  deal with my TRD is frustrating at best and we now have this to deal with.

I will be there for my wife every step of the way, no matter what the outcome but I'm under no illusions how hard this is going to be.

My wife is the core of my world and I don't want to contemplate what could happen.

So, sorry for the waffle but I just need to park these thoughts somewhere.

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  • I'm so so sorry, this must be such a difficult time for you both, and wishing you all the strength you can muster for the hard times ahead. 

    Having somewhere to talk about your side is important, as you will need support to be supportive in turn. We will be here when you need to talk.

    I wish I could say more, but nothing seems to fit. It's brought tears to my eyes as something like this would be one of my biggest fears. 

    Take care of yourselves in any way you can.

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  • I'm so so sorry, this must be such a difficult time for you both, and wishing you all the strength you can muster for the hard times ahead. 

    Having somewhere to talk about your side is important, as you will need support to be supportive in turn. We will be here when you need to talk.

    I wish I could say more, but nothing seems to fit. It's brought tears to my eyes as something like this would be one of my biggest fears. 

    Take care of yourselves in any way you can.

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