Stuck in life

. Im 42 have asd . And I just think my life is totally pointless . I have no friends at all , no partner . I dont see anyone day in day out apart from patients at work . I work on my own so no staff to be around either . I try to get to groups and other things but with work and the fact I have a 10 yr okd thats also asd its just impossible . All the things I find im either working or with him . He wont go to any groups or anything with others. We do the same every day and night and while hes at school I go to work . I hate where i live and I cant settle anywhere because noise is a massive issue for me so every time I move its just another bad choice as its always too noisey . I just reqlly cant see the point in existing , its so loanly and pointless

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  • Hi 

    Thank you for being so honest. 

    I feel very similar to you sometimes when everything seems hopeless but it does pass eventually. If it didn’t I would seek medical intervention.

    I love trees and open spaces, it’s the only place I feel some sort of peace. Can you get to any green space's, just to give your system a little break. Even just something small for me once a week a cup of milky coffee and a nice cake, something you like a treat, you deserve it.

    I think has given very good advice things are constantly moving and changing someone or something could come into your life tomorrow and change everything. 

    Hats off to you being a single parent, it’s a tough job even when there are two parents but you are doing it.

    I hope better things are on the horizon for you.

    Sending warm wishes your way

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  • Hi 

    Thank you for being so honest. 

    I feel very similar to you sometimes when everything seems hopeless but it does pass eventually. If it didn’t I would seek medical intervention.

    I love trees and open spaces, it’s the only place I feel some sort of peace. Can you get to any green space's, just to give your system a little break. Even just something small for me once a week a cup of milky coffee and a nice cake, something you like a treat, you deserve it.

    I think has given very good advice things are constantly moving and changing someone or something could come into your life tomorrow and change everything. 

    Hats off to you being a single parent, it’s a tough job even when there are two parents but you are doing it.

    I hope better things are on the horizon for you.

    Sending warm wishes your way

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