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maybe one explanation for autistic people being gaslighted by neurotypicals

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"Gaslighting is the manipulation by psychological means of a person (or group) which causes them to doubt themselves, their capabilities or their sense of reality. "

I recently came across this article Cognitive Dissonance and Autism | The Neurodivergent Brain

I came out of it understanding that according to the article...

Memories of events stay the same however interpretation of why things happened as they did can change, this is a more "autistic way" of how to settle mental confusion. 

Neurotypical people on the other hand are more likely to change their memories of things to settle the confusion.

So when a neurotypical person gives a version of events that completely is at odds with what autistic people recall happening which consequently "gaslights" the autistic person this might explain it.

I have to say that for myself this has a sense of authenticity about it.

Or am I just deluding myself as much as the article accuses neurotypical people of doing to themselves?

Thought anyone please?

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  • in reply to profdanger

    yes your sister told me that too... another joke sorry

    Don't blame yourself - there is a chain of causality that goes all the way back to the big bang (Ok Heisenberg's uncertainty principle would say I'm stretching a point a bit).

    Anyway I think you get my drift.

    As a point of fun, talking to a musician, what sort of music/what musical composition would your mum be?

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