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I hate pretty people so much

BigNoseGirly0

I’m a ugly woman and notice double standards that a lot of people don’t.

As a random example, you can get away with being a total ***, as long as you’re pretty.

theres two girls at my workplace with the same attitude. However, they get different treatment. Everyone hates the ugly girl for being rude, saying she looks like a bulldog. But nobody says anything about the pretty one and everyone just swoons over her and act like they’re best buds with her.

Obviously, being autistic can effect how you behave, hence, others may think you’re odd. But if you’re conventionally attractive, you can get away with it and be seen as quirky or unique. I knew attractive girls who happened to be autistic, yet, people are willing to talk to them because they’re cute. Meanwhile, I’m the opposite.

it genuinely depresses me knowing how different and better my life would be if I was attractive. 

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  • I wouldn’t say that I hate pretty people, but I hate the double standards and discrimination. Yes, treating worse someone who is perceived as less attractive is a discrimination. It’s also easy for those attractive people to give good advice sort of: you just need to take care of yourself! You just need to smile, be self confident etc. I got really angry when hearing such things from someone who probably has never experienced bad treatment because of look. Lookism is real in many societies, cultures, it’s the comparing to others, it’s the constant competition. But many people forget that the beautiful package is not the most important thing! I can’t say I’m pretty, I’m also not ugly. I was considered ugly because I had childish round cheeks for long time. At age of 18 I heard that I’m 13. Now I’m 36 and hear that I look much younger than my age. It took me long time to accept myself the way I am. I understood that the real beauty must be somewhere within me and plastic surgeries wouldn’t help me. As a teenager I was desperate to change my nose, eyes, brow lift etc. But I saw some videos of victims of unsuccessful surgeries. Plus I had no money for such procedures. Now I’m happy in my natural body. My colleague from high school once saw me in the town when I visited my parents and she asked me what I’m doing that I look so young. She was the one to give me lessons how I should take care of my look. I answered I just didn’t use solar studios. 
    i feel for you and I wish that people open their eyes to see the true beauty within themselves and others. Not only fancy package 

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  • I wouldn’t say that I hate pretty people, but I hate the double standards and discrimination. Yes, treating worse someone who is perceived as less attractive is a discrimination. It’s also easy for those attractive people to give good advice sort of: you just need to take care of yourself! You just need to smile, be self confident etc. I got really angry when hearing such things from someone who probably has never experienced bad treatment because of look. Lookism is real in many societies, cultures, it’s the comparing to others, it’s the constant competition. But many people forget that the beautiful package is not the most important thing! I can’t say I’m pretty, I’m also not ugly. I was considered ugly because I had childish round cheeks for long time. At age of 18 I heard that I’m 13. Now I’m 36 and hear that I look much younger than my age. It took me long time to accept myself the way I am. I understood that the real beauty must be somewhere within me and plastic surgeries wouldn’t help me. As a teenager I was desperate to change my nose, eyes, brow lift etc. But I saw some videos of victims of unsuccessful surgeries. Plus I had no money for such procedures. Now I’m happy in my natural body. My colleague from high school once saw me in the town when I visited my parents and she asked me what I’m doing that I look so young. She was the one to give me lessons how I should take care of my look. I answered I just didn’t use solar studios. 
    i feel for you and I wish that people open their eyes to see the true beauty within themselves and others. Not only fancy package 

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