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I hate pretty people so much

BigNoseGirly0

I’m a ugly woman and notice double standards that a lot of people don’t.

As a random example, you can get away with being a total ***, as long as you’re pretty.

theres two girls at my workplace with the same attitude. However, they get different treatment. Everyone hates the ugly girl for being rude, saying she looks like a bulldog. But nobody says anything about the pretty one and everyone just swoons over her and act like they’re best buds with her.

Obviously, being autistic can effect how you behave, hence, others may think you’re odd. But if you’re conventionally attractive, you can get away with it and be seen as quirky or unique. I knew attractive girls who happened to be autistic, yet, people are willing to talk to them because they’re cute. Meanwhile, I’m the opposite.

it genuinely depresses me knowing how different and better my life would be if I was attractive. 

Upside down

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  • beauty is skin deep, and is only in the eye of the beholder, try not to hate people who you think look pretty, you do not know what hidden burdens and problems they may harbor, to judge harshly of others can only bring bitterness to yourself, try to look for the good in people, and stop thinking of yourself as 'ugley', it is like a lady friend of mine who i met on a dating site, she regards herself as 'damaged' when we met I told her to stop thinking like that, I encouraged her to stand up to her step daughters and she is know back with her husband.what i am saying is try to take the positives and try not to be bitter, the girl you are talking about may be a 'kitten' in the eyes of some, but if any one were to live with her that would ware of quickly if she is the way you say, and then the 'kitten' has claws that lash out and is not so cute

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  • beauty is skin deep, and is only in the eye of the beholder, try not to hate people who you think look pretty, you do not know what hidden burdens and problems they may harbor, to judge harshly of others can only bring bitterness to yourself, try to look for the good in people, and stop thinking of yourself as 'ugley', it is like a lady friend of mine who i met on a dating site, she regards herself as 'damaged' when we met I told her to stop thinking like that, I encouraged her to stand up to her step daughters and she is know back with her husband.what i am saying is try to take the positives and try not to be bitter, the girl you are talking about may be a 'kitten' in the eyes of some, but if any one were to live with her that would ware of quickly if she is the way you say, and then the 'kitten' has claws that lash out and is not so cute

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