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Prevented from pursuing special interests?

Ne6us

Has anyone ever experienced something that has prevented you from pursuing your special interests? 

I have found that depression and overwhelm/sensory & cognitive overload stemming from becoming a parent and also having extreme relationship issues, has made me lose interest in absolutely everything. If I am having a good day I might listen to one of my favourite bands or artists but it soon wears off.

I'm wondering, have you ever had a period of time when you've completely stopped pursuing any of your special interests? I used to be extremely interested in learning anything and everything about human nature - psychology, philosophy, culture, etc. Now I feel like my sense of wonder has been shattered, maybe by too much reality/demands on the part of the brain that controls practical, in-the-moment decision-making, at the expense of higher order thinking?

I also have severe memory issues, whereas previously I had a good memory for information. 

Sorry not trying to be a downer, genuine question. I'm undiagnosed so I wonder if I can be truly autistic if my special interests are on the back burner. 

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  • memory problems and losing interest in things is a sign of depression.

    parenting can be very stressful and if there are 'extreme relationship issues' as well then this is a recipe for worry which for sensitive souls like us can tip us into depression.

    It is great that you are here and sharing and being open about the situation. The more people you can connect with and get support from the better.

  • in reply to dad1967

    Definitely have depression. Have just started on a different antidepressant as a previous one made me sick. So many practical life issues... my husband is from a culture where it's the norm to live in multi generational homes and the chaos and lack of control is just maddening. 

    I think perhaps my depression has been lifelong. I used to get excited about things such as painting or reading philosophy etc but now I just don't care. I think I have shut down from doing anything except the minimum to keep myself and kids alive

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  • in reply to dad1967

    Definitely have depression. Have just started on a different antidepressant as a previous one made me sick. So many practical life issues... my husband is from a culture where it's the norm to live in multi generational homes and the chaos and lack of control is just maddening. 

    I think perhaps my depression has been lifelong. I used to get excited about things such as painting or reading philosophy etc but now I just don't care. I think I have shut down from doing anything except the minimum to keep myself and kids alive

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