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"Carefully Neutral" - How to Avoid Implications

Abbie

Looking for advice here. ND folks keep hearing words, sentences and meanings that I never said at all or ever intended. Telling them they're mistaken or they're jumping to conclusions, explaining what I actually mean, using my words more literally... None of these solutions work. If anything it just gets them more angry. Does anyone here know how to go about conversations in a more I suppose mechanical sort of way? One where they won't hear anything more than what I'm actually saying?

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  • I want to be myself more than ever.  I dont want to overthink how i should or shouldnt say something. Remember we have to tolerate all different personality types, some  loud  overwhelming  bossy quiet two faced triubke makers nosey, jealous people. We cant control them we have to tolerate them. So if i come across as direct, no mesding sort of petson, then i can live with that, because what people get is a kind, funny, moody, transpsrent person who is not just out for themselves x

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  • I want to be myself more than ever.  I dont want to overthink how i should or shouldnt say something. Remember we have to tolerate all different personality types, some  loud  overwhelming  bossy quiet two faced triubke makers nosey, jealous people. We cant control them we have to tolerate them. So if i come across as direct, no mesding sort of petson, then i can live with that, because what people get is a kind, funny, moody, transpsrent person who is not just out for themselves x

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