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Trying to move on

Laura

Throughout high school I really struggled with bullying. Having friends then losing friends and not knowing why. Having mean rumours spread about me and all the embarrassing things that come with that.

I’ve left school and now am happy at my college. But the thing is I lie awake just thinking about it all. Reflecting on how I could’ve done something differently.

part of me is scared I’ll never be able to move on from the bullying. Part of me thinks what if this is all I’ll think about forever?

if anyone has had a similar experience and can give some well needed advice I’d really appreciate it.

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  • yeah i always thought about it, but as you move on and get more experiences the new stuff sorta overlaps and noises the old out.
    you may still think back on events though even then, likely with new updated perspective on it each time. you may hear of or see one of your bullies in the future then probably feel happier as you realise they usually end up becoming druggies or getting arrested or something. any of their tag alongs or followers usually being failures too but trying to make out they are not and still trying to talk down about you perhaps. i had one talk down to me and make a comment about me not working or not paying tax, well i work and have my own place now while he still lives in his parents and never moved lol so yeah you pass these people rather easily because they are trash.

    perhaps them bullying and talking down to others is their way of coping with that, they have to speak down to others and project their own trashiness onto others so that they dont feel as trash as they are perhaps?

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  • yeah i always thought about it, but as you move on and get more experiences the new stuff sorta overlaps and noises the old out.
    you may still think back on events though even then, likely with new updated perspective on it each time. you may hear of or see one of your bullies in the future then probably feel happier as you realise they usually end up becoming druggies or getting arrested or something. any of their tag alongs or followers usually being failures too but trying to make out they are not and still trying to talk down about you perhaps. i had one talk down to me and make a comment about me not working or not paying tax, well i work and have my own place now while he still lives in his parents and never moved lol so yeah you pass these people rather easily because they are trash.

    perhaps them bullying and talking down to others is their way of coping with that, they have to speak down to others and project their own trashiness onto others so that they dont feel as trash as they are perhaps?

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