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I feel useless

Ladybug5

I don’t think I’ll ever be able to go to Uni, or form relationships, or get a job, or live independently. I don’t even know if I enjoy or am capable of anything. I know people can be happy living simple lives and not “achieving” anything career wise etc but i have practically no function. I just want to be normal but I can’t do the bare minimum and have no desire to.

I had Uni and a future career planned and I just can’t do it.

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  • It's good to be able to vent when you feel the need ... and this is a good place for a catastrophising rant.  I have found myself circling around with the type of thoughts you express.

    The good news is,  it does get better ... eventually!  I'm been stuck in the "buggered beyond hope" mode for many, many consecutive months before.....and that is grim and really tests your resilience.  Notwithstanding, it does get better.

    Hang in there mate.

    Kind regards

    Number

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  • It's good to be able to vent when you feel the need ... and this is a good place for a catastrophising rant.  I have found myself circling around with the type of thoughts you express.

    The good news is,  it does get better ... eventually!  I'm been stuck in the "buggered beyond hope" mode for many, many consecutive months before.....and that is grim and really tests your resilience.  Notwithstanding, it does get better.

    Hang in there mate.

    Kind regards

    Number

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