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Is anyone here transgender?

Cameron

Hi all, 

I'm a transguy and I started hormones last week. I've done hours and hours of research, watched documentaries, YouTube videos on everything, asked lots and lots of transguys question after question, I felt super ready and prepared to start hormones. I got the hormones and a couple of days in, I was suddenly incredibly anxious to the point of shaking and feeling sick. It very suddenly hit me that my body is going to change and I'm really really struggling to process that. I want these changes, I've been wanting them for years, but I'm completely stuck because I'm so so scared of change and it's really impacting my wellbeing and mental health, to the point where I've only been on hormones for a week and I'm considering stopping to take a breather. My OCD has also been triggered and is making things worse. Is anyone else here transgender and what has your experience been like? Did you struggle with this or anything else? Did you autism impact your transition in anyway? Thanks! 

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  • I'm autistic and enby masc. I haven't started hormones, but if they are having such a negative effect then it might be a good idea to take a break and ask your doctor for a smaller more manageable dose. Take your time, transition on your own timeline.

    And as your the end bit. My autism and dysphoria seem to tag team me. If I'm having more sensory issues, my dysphoria gets worse, and vice versa. It's a bit of a knock on affect. If 1 thing feels out of balance, everything else that feels out of balance is heightened.

    I don't have any access to gender affirming care or binders ect, so I've had to find ways on the Internet to cope. A lot of the tips for make shift binders or tricks to look more masculine ect, I just couldn't do, I'd be stressed out within minutes, and I would have to stop and make due with the baggy jumpers.

    And even though I found ways to make kind of make-shift binders, a lot of the time I couldn't wear them, because if I had a panic attack it would be even harder to breathe, and it made it a lot harder to run away from assholes.

    I hope that some of this helped,

                        Ash.

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  • I'm autistic and enby masc. I haven't started hormones, but if they are having such a negative effect then it might be a good idea to take a break and ask your doctor for a smaller more manageable dose. Take your time, transition on your own timeline.

    And as your the end bit. My autism and dysphoria seem to tag team me. If I'm having more sensory issues, my dysphoria gets worse, and vice versa. It's a bit of a knock on affect. If 1 thing feels out of balance, everything else that feels out of balance is heightened.

    I don't have any access to gender affirming care or binders ect, so I've had to find ways on the Internet to cope. A lot of the tips for make shift binders or tricks to look more masculine ect, I just couldn't do, I'd be stressed out within minutes, and I would have to stop and make due with the baggy jumpers.

    And even though I found ways to make kind of make-shift binders, a lot of the time I couldn't wear them, because if I had a panic attack it would be even harder to breathe, and it made it a lot harder to run away from assholes.

    I hope that some of this helped,

                        Ash.

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