coping with loneliness?

i was like that, i stayed in my parents house... well i still live in my parents house at 32 lmao
but i pretty much didnt have any contact or friends, until around when i was 24 or 25 or something i took up kung fu which got me a bit of associate contacts... still lonely, but then that loneliness and depression is what eventually pushed me to get a job. it was the push, the fuel i needed to actually normalise and get on as it pretty much forced me to get a job, not for money, but for being around people and want of at least the illusion of those people being my friends. it was a good thing, i guess depression on this issue inevitably leads to your body naturally pushing itself out there in the work force to get social contact your mind probably needs.

you can probably still go another 10 years in solitude, as i could, but then you will break, and when you do you will get a job one day without caring about whether you can do it or whether youd like it or not, its probably a mental break when i think on it, as it was totally against my character and opinion and feeling on work too but yet i still got forced to by my mind and depression on lonliness.... i think it was a good reaction, a good choice, i feel attached to my colleagues somewhat and also have good income and bank to make me feel more secure about my future.

your mind will make you feel bad on things to try push you into things that will fix it... even if you say you cant work, your mind will push you into work due to your loneliness and depressed state and you wont be able to fight against it, youd just do it, your mind would take over to self fix it if you fail to do so. although youd still be anxious and unsure about it all.

i was like that, i stayed in my parents house... well i still live in my parents house at 32 lmao
but i pretty much didnt have any contact or friends, until around when i was 24 or 25 or something i took up kung fu which got me a bit of associate contacts... still lonely, but then that loneliness and depression is what eventually pushed me to get a job. it was the push, the fuel i needed to actually normalise and get on as it pretty much forced me to get a job, not for money, but for being around people and want of at least the illusion of those people being my friends. it was a good thing, i guess depression on this issue inevitably leads to your body naturally pushing itself out there in the work force to get social contact your mind probably needs.

you can probably still go another 10 years in solitude, as i could, but then you will break, and when you do you will get a job one day without caring about whether you can do it or whether youd like it or not, its probably a mental break when i think on it, as it was totally against my character and opinion and feeling on work too but yet i still got forced to by my mind and depression on lonliness.... i think it was a good reaction, a good choice, i feel attached to my colleagues somewhat and also have good income and bank to make me feel more secure about my future.

your mind will make you feel bad on things to try push you into things that will fix it... even if you say you cant work, your mind will push you into work due to your loneliness and depressed state and you wont be able to fight against it, youd just do it, your mind would take over to self fix it if you fail to do so. although youd still be anxious and unsure about it all.