How to deal with a bullying parent?

My dad is a bully and I always seem to want him dead. He makes me very angry and he still likes to bully me. Anyone who does bully me makes me angry and I wish them hell. I bully my dad right back and my mom thinks I’m the one who starts it, but it’s not  me. I hope when he dies he’s in hell and that I don’t have to deal with him anymore. I’m not even going to his funeral. That’s how I feel about bullies. They deserve to be miserable. 

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  • You can't change your dad if that's how he is, and he might enjoy affecting you so its best to work on how you respond, choose not to engage or bully back as that means he has trained you well, not sure you want to be a clone of him really.   He will keep triggering you, but break this cycle and you will feel better and he will continue to have his own issues causing this.   

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  • You can't change your dad if that's how he is, and he might enjoy affecting you so its best to work on how you respond, choose not to engage or bully back as that means he has trained you well, not sure you want to be a clone of him really.   He will keep triggering you, but break this cycle and you will feel better and he will continue to have his own issues causing this.   

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