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Constantly talking about myself

Weazelbeast

Its getting alot of people mad at me right now. Im constantly on about having autism or not....lazy or not...not thinking like an adult. I cant seem to talk about anything else. Its getting me in a lot of trouble and getting people so they dont want to talk to me...or i talk about how people percieve things like mind visualising. It feels like i bypassed life so heavily i dont know whats what

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  • Can I ask how old you are? For most of us, it proper understanding of how to mature into an adult we missed. NeuroTypical individuals will get this as a sort of free down load, so it becomes innate, as they learn how to interact  with others in the manner which NT society is set.  For autistics, we nee practical guides to help us with rules of relationships or rules of engaging with others. 

    I can say once I started realising how little help I had becoming a functioning citizen with “something to offer”, was a start to a whole adventure into understanding this stuff.  It’s so frustrating, so I feel where you’re at. 

    What would you like to be able to do? 

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  • Can I ask how old you are? For most of us, it proper understanding of how to mature into an adult we missed. NeuroTypical individuals will get this as a sort of free down load, so it becomes innate, as they learn how to interact  with others in the manner which NT society is set.  For autistics, we nee practical guides to help us with rules of relationships or rules of engaging with others. 

    I can say once I started realising how little help I had becoming a functioning citizen with “something to offer”, was a start to a whole adventure into understanding this stuff.  It’s so frustrating, so I feel where you’re at. 

    What would you like to be able to do? 

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  • in reply to JuniperFromGallifrey

    I am 39. I want to be able to do some things without direction. At present it takes lists to get me active. I lived being looked after alot so my brain is very out of whack. When you live a certain way. I feel so far behind i dont know how i aill ever live normally. I hate being reliant but also very much dont want to work which brings ita own guilt. Just not being constantly anxious would be nice